Dan and Phil Address Relationship Rumors as They Seek a Fresh Start

British YouTube personalities Dan Howell and Phil Lester have recently addressed longstanding rumors about their relationship. They confirmed that they have been dating for the past 15 years. This announcement came after they both publicly came out as gay in 2019.
Background of Dan and Phil
Dan and Phil began their YouTube journey in the mid-2000s, eventually launching their joint gaming channel in 2014. Over the years, fans have speculated about their relationship, especially after both coming out as gay.
15-Year Relationship Revealed
In a YouTube video released on October 13, 2025, they disclosed that their romantic relationship began in 2009. They met online and decided to keep their dating status private for many reasons. Dan explained that his upbringing in an “extremely homophobic” environment made coming out a challenging experience.
Concerns About Career Impact
Both YouTubers feared that revealing their relationship might overshadow their professional achievements. They noted that constant rumors could have added significant stress during their rise to fame. Dan remarked, “In my mid-twenties, I felt that we had to hide the relationship.” Phil echoed his concerns about the impact their relationship could have had on their careers.
A New Beginning
With their relationship now out in the open, Dan and Phil expressed a commitment to creating more content for their audience. They announced the launch of their long-awaited podcast and emphasized their desire to entertain their fans.
Request for Privacy
Alongside their announcement, the duo asked fans for privacy. They outlined specific “rules” to help maintain boundaries, including a plea to stop intrusive behaviors. Phil requested the freedom to enjoy everyday activities, like dining out, without being constantly watched.
Fan Reactions
- Responses from fans have been largely supportive.
- Some were humorously confused, believing the couple had been public about their relationship for years.
Dan and Phil’s revelation marks a significant moment in their personal lives and careers, as they embrace a fresh start together. This follows the trend of prominent YouTubers sharing relationship milestones, such as Markiplier’s recent marriage.