Exclusive Insight Brewers Coach Pat Murphy Reflects on Baseball Family and Life Lessons

Pat Murphy, the Milwaukee Brewers’ manager, reflects on his journey in baseball and life lessons at 66. Having taken over from his close friend Craig Counsell after 2023, Murphy’s story is one of resilience and unexpected opportunities.
From Boxer to Baseball Manager
Murphy began his days as a boxer in Syracuse, New York, and transitioned to sports, ultimately finding his place in baseball. Despite personal challenges, including growing up with an alcoholic father, this background only strengthened his resolve.
A Surprise Opportunity
Murphy did not expect to become a Major League Baseball manager at his age. In fact, he thought “the time had passed.” But when Counsell left to join the Chicago Cubs, Murphy was set to follow. The Brewers then offered him an interview, leading to his appointment as the manager.
- Murphy succeeded in an unexpected role at 64.
- The Brewers have won back-to-back National League Central titles under his management.
- The team achieved over 190 victories despite budget cuts.
Life Lessons and Baseball Family
Family remains a central theme in Murphy’s life, encompassing both his children and baseball family. Despite having three failed marriages, his children, ranging from young boys to adults in their 30s, remain his core focus.
- Murphy’s children range from ages 6 to 39.
- His daughter Kelli, married to former MLB player Pedro Alvarez, supports him from afar.
Overcoming Addiction
A notable part of his life story is his decision to avoid alcohol due to witnessing its destructive effects on his father and friends. This choice sets him apart in a game where celebratory drinks are a norm.
The Underdog Spirit
Facing the Los Angeles Dodgers, Murphy embraces the underdog spirit. Despite the Brewers having a far smaller payroll than the Dodgers, Murphy hopes his team can spring a surprise during the series.
- The Dodgers boast a payroll over $250 million greater.
- Murphy jokes about evening the odds by asking Dodgers to use opposite hands.
Friendship Beyond the Game
Murphy’s long-time friendship with Counsell extends beyond the field. Despite Counsell’s departure, their bond remains strong, with Murphy acknowledging Counsell’s significant influence on his career.
Their relationship exemplifies a familial connection within baseball, showing that off-field friendships can have a profound impact on personal and professional lives.
Reflection and Motivation
Murphy’s office is filled with memorabilia that reflect his inspirations. With notable figures like Mariano Rivera and Bruce Springsteen, he combines sportsmanship with personal endurance in his journey.
Springsteen’s music, in particular, serves as Murphy’s motivation. It is meaningful enough to him that he has “No Retreat, No Surrender” tattooed as a reminder of his life’s philosophy.
A Call to Action
He urges his players to seize every opportunity, as seen during previous setbacks. Murphy’s belief in overcoming odds shines through in his leadership style, making no room for retreat, only action.