Anthony Hopkins Pens Emotional Apology to Estranged Daughter Abigail in Latest Memoir
Anthony Hopkins has expressed heartfelt sentiments towards his estranged daughter, Abigail Hopkins, in his latest memoir, *We Did It, Kid*. The actor offers an emotional apology and invites reconciliation after a long period of separation.
Emotional Message to Abigail
In his memoir, released on November 4, 2023, the 87-year-old Oscar-winning actor acknowledges his estrangement from Abigail, reflecting on the pain caused by their fractured relationship. “My door is always open to her,” he writes, hoping to mend their bond.
Details of Estrangement
Hopkins shares insights into their strained relationship during a New York Times interview. He revealed that a recent attempt at reconciliation, initiated by his wife Stella Arroyave, was ignored by Abigail. “My wife sent an invitation for her to visit, but we received no response,” Hopkins explained.
Reflections on the Past
The actor recounts memories from Abigail’s infancy, expressing regret for not being a part of her life. He states, “Until the day I die, I will never forget the sight of her in that crib.” He admits to feeling remorse for leaving the family, albeit believing he had no alternative at that time.
Past Attempts to Reconnect
Hopkins recalls a specific occasion in 1997 when he tried to bridge the gap by apologizing to Abigail and his first wife, Petronella Barker. However, the meeting was filled with tension and discomfort. “They didn’t want me there,” he reflected, recognizing the damage done over the years.
Efforts to Support Abigail
During Abigail’s teenage years, Hopkins attempted to support her budding acting career. He helped her secure small roles and even provided her with an apartment. Despite his efforts, she drifted further away. “Abigail never seemed able to forgive me for leaving when she was a baby,” he noted.
Regrets and Personal Growth
Hopkins confesses to having spoken about Abigail in a “cold” manner during interviews, a choice he now regrets. “After 20 years of silence, I remarked that I didn’t care where she was or what her life was like,” he admitted.
Coming to terms with his shortcomings as a father, Hopkins decided against having more children, acknowledging his perceived selfishness. “I knew I was unfit as a father for Abigail and didn’t want to repeat those mistakes,” he stated.
Abigail’s Perspective
While Abigail has remained largely silent about her relationship with her father, she expressed in a 2006 interview that she was open to the possibility of reconciliation, provided it was mutual. “It would have to be a two-way thing,” she mentioned, highlighting their sporadic communication.
As the conversation surrounding their relationship continues, *We Did It, Kid* serves as a poignant exploration of Hopkins’ feelings towards Abigail, reflecting on the complexities of fatherhood and estrangement.
